Legacies Woven Into Our Surnames

Any child born from a lineage steeped in royalty carries within them the whispers of tradition that echo through the winds of time. I have felt the warm embrace of those teachings, their essence woven into the fabric of my being, lessons that once seemed elusive but now shimmer with clarity. Spirit flows like an … Continue reading Legacies Woven Into Our Surnames

Our Souls Hold What Our Flesh Has Lost

Being able to speak about my ancestors is something that brings me so much joy. To be in the presence of someone whose energy allows me to share such truths says so much about the spirit they carry. When I remember my early struggles with grasping the basics of a certain ancient language, I laugh … Continue reading Our Souls Hold What Our Flesh Has Lost

When Music Heals:

The Medicine In Buhlebendalo Mda’s Music Sons and daughters of the soil, I raise you Hele…a sacred vessel disguised as an album. @lankosiwrites It is far from being loud, rather it speaks with the authority of the sacred waters that have known the beginning of time. It heals, it ignites, it whispers, and it commands. … Continue reading When Music Heals:

When Music Heals:

The Medicine In Buhlebendalo Mda’s Music I have always carried a deep affection for Buhlebendalo, tracing her path from the sacred harmonies of The Soil to the blossoming of her own spirit through Chosi and Hele. To me, these are not merely albums...they are vessels, offerings, with each one having been crafted with ancestral memory, … Continue reading When Music Heals:

African Proverbs To Live By

Gems We Inherited From Those Who Came Before Us Growing up surrounded by my grandmothers, I was fortunate to be immersed in the wisdom that flowed so generously from their lips to our ears. My maternal grandmother, in particular, took it upon herself to share the teachings she had received from her grandmother, continuing a … Continue reading African Proverbs To Live By

When Outbursts Expose More Than Just Anger 

The Abahambe Brigade @lankosiwrites Gayton McKenzie’s public outburst did more than just spark debate…it revealed some deeply troubling views that many of us hadn't fully recognized. His decision to confront the Open Chats podcast, under the banner of defending the colored community, instead opened a can of worms he perhaps did not expect. In doing … Continue reading When Outbursts Expose More Than Just Anger 

Clarity On The Boundaries I Set

Having walked through all that I have, and now standing firm in my calling as a healer, I am no longer shaken by the whispers spoken behind my back even by those I once held close. Spirit has opened my eyes to see them not as they pretend to be, but as the wounded souls … Continue reading Clarity On The Boundaries I Set

Maintaining Boundaries

The early stages of maintaining boundaries for your peace can be the most challenging. Especially when you end up confusing access with acceptance, or presence with progress. Just because they show up, doesn’t mean they’ve stepped up. You owe no one your softness if they haven’t earned your safety. Protect your peace even from those … Continue reading Maintaining Boundaries